September 8, 2025: The Sweet Exchange

Lincoln was on to something.

The 16th president became famous for his “team of rivals” leadership approach. He appointed men who had actively opposed him for the Republican nomination, rivals from different regions and ideologies.

Why do this? Instead of seeking harmony, he recognized diverse thoughts sparked solutions and prevented blind spots.

Lincoln’s cabinet meetings focused on surfacing dissent. This gave him broader intelligence than a room full of “yes men.” He encouraged open argument, then quietly reserved the right to decide.

Oddly, I thought of Lincoln last night while Jess and I delivered cakes to our new neighbors. She serves on the hospitality team, and I drove her to the homes.

I’ve witnessed how a simple dessert can break down walls and turn strangers into friends. It’s not waiting to see if someones shares our views or background. Leadership goes first in kindness.

Now I want some cake.