July 1, 2025: The Bravery Blueprint

These wise words somehow seem to stick.

When my kids were small, bedtime came with a ritual. I’d tuck them in, head for the door, then turn back with the same parting prayer:

“May God give you the wisdom to know what is right and the courage to do it even when it’s hard.”

Sometimes I’d trail off mid-sentence, letting them finish the thought.

Now they’re grown, but they still remember. And when they’re home, they often beat me to it, shortening the phrase with a grin, “Even when it’s hard.”

With everyone spread far and wide, I text Dad’s Weekly Wisdom to our family group chat. While I’m no mountaintop monk, I try to share what I learn.

But today, Jake gave me a gem he heard from his JMU professor, Dan Schill. Only four words, but man, so powerful:

“Start before you’re ready.”

I love that. Don’t wait for permission or perfect conditions.

Motion creates momentum, which brings clarity and confidence. Readiness often follows action, not the other way around. Otherwise, it’s tempting to mistake planning for progress.

I’ve always gained more from leaping than lingering. Think of the high dive. At some point, stop counting stairs and just jump.

For me, here’s the secret: courage is more important than competence, especially in the beginning.

Trust the path will unfold as you walk. Instead of waiting for a magic reveal beforehand, take the first scary step.

That initial fight against inertia is the hardest. But movement doesn’t need to be monumental. A nudge can do wonders.

Or, in Jake’s own words: “Go on 2, not 3.”

Even when it’s hard.